A Bad Day, But a Good Trip

How it began: Who doesn’t love a road trip?

Mike once said that these blog posts don’t write themselves.  Like so many other things he’s said with certainty, this turned out not to be true.  This post practically wrote itself.

Wednesday, November 23, was supposed to be an easy, fun day.  We were going to drive to Nazaré, about 90 minutes north of Parede, on the Atlantic coast.  Our friend and fellow blogger, Nancy Whiteman, had written about Nazaré, and we had always wanted to go there.

Once upon a time, Nazaré was just a little fishing village. Now it’s a global locus of surf culture – a place where, if you’re brave enough and skilled enough, you might catch a 100 foot wave.  

We had been invited to a big Thanksgiving dinner, hosted by Beverly and Daniel, another couple of American immigrants who had recently moved to Nazaré from Lisbon.  Even though Thanksgiving is not celebrated in Portugal, we were looking forward to a familiar holiday ritual in a new location.  In addition to the dinner, we wanted to explore the town, so we decided to drive up on Wednesday, do Thanksgiving on Thursday, and return on Friday.  

It turned out that this week was a great time to come, because there was a “Severe Coastal Event Warning” issued for Tuesday night until Thursday afternoon.  It predicted “Northwest waves with 5 to 6 meters, and maximum height up to 11 meters”.  

That’s up to 36 feet, for those of us raised on Imperial measures

Or, as one of our kids commented, it would be like having eleven 4 year olds stand one of top of the other.  (Please don’t try this at home!)

A screen shot of our weather app calling for high waves at Nazaré.

So there was going to be good food to eat and some interesting things to see.  Mike booked a rental car and Mary found an interesting bed and breakfast that was dog-friendly.  We were set for a great few days away.

That is, until we got up that morning. 

Off to a rough start

Mary got up first and found a large wet spot in the middle of our new living room rug.  As much as we love Sox, our 13 year old Boston Terrier, this is one of the downsides of having an aging dog.  

Boston Red Sox relaxing in Porto.
“I didn’t mean to do it.”

So Mary’s day began with cleaning supplies and grumbling.  Not a good way to start the day, especially since she had lots to do before we left town.  In hindsight, maybe we should have recognized that as an indication of how the day would test our patience.

Once the rug was cleaned, we muddled through the other morning activities.  We got our suitcases packed and then left for Lisbon to pick up the rental car.  

The Lucky Dip car

The bright spot of the morning was Diane, the young woman who checked us in.  She was cheerful, funny, and determined to make our experience “easy” – easy for us, easy for her. 

When Mike booked the rental car, he had selected an option called “Lucky Dip”, which meant that the rental company would select the car model and size at the time of pickup.  The price was slightly lower than their smallest compact – you get a discount for accepting some uncertainty.  We weren’t going to be driving very far, and would only have the car for 48 hours, so why not roll the dice and see what we get?  

The car we got was a Leon, made by the Spanish car maker Seat.  We had seen these cars around, but had never driven one.  It has features similar to the Volkswagen Golf and Audi A3.  (Seat is owned by Volkswagen.)

An advertising photo of the Seat Leon automobile.
Ours was grey and we don’t know that woman.
Image source: seat.pt

We got in, started it up, and Mary moved to plug in my phone so we could see our maps app on the console and have it tell us the directions.  But – Lucky Dip surprise! – the Leon has the newer, smaller USB ports, not the older, bigger ones that are on all our cords.  

Two types of USB plugs.
Image source: usbmemorydirect.com

OK.  Let’s try to connect using Bluetooth.  Oh, that doesn’t work, either?

It may be a sign of the coming apocalypse that we no longer evaluate cars on attributes like horsepower, torque, or the comfort of the seats.  Nope.  It all comes down to “can I plug in all my electrical gadgets?”   

But everything was fine, until it wasn’t

So Mary acted as navigator, holding my phone and repeating the instructions to get us out of downtown Lisbon and back to Parede.  We made it without incident.  Things were looking good.

Back at home, we were excited to get the car loaded and get on the road.  We made a couple trips down the elevator from the apartment with suitcases, Mike’s backpack, Sox’s bed, and the potato casserole Mary had made to take to Thanksgiving dinner.  All that was left was the bag of snacks, the dog food, and Sox.

Mike locked the car and we walked back into the building and called the elevator.  The door opened and as MIke stepped in he bumped into the door frame and dropped the fob that opened the car doors and operated the keyless ignition.  It scooted across the threshold of the elevator door and then, as we watched in open-mouthed disbelief, it disappeared down the crack between the elevator car and the shaft.  

The gap in our elevator door - 3cm wide!
The gap is 3 cm / 1.5 in wide!

Mike was never in the Navy, but at that moment he swore like a veteran sailor.

Now what?

For a moment or two, we just stood and looked at each other, both of us feeling a growing sense of panic.   But we have a rule in our marriage that has served us well for many years:  Only one of us can be insane at a time.  And playing the “blame game” never ends well. Somebody had to do something…fast!

Mike moved first.  There was a sticker on the wall of the elevator car with phone numbers for the company that serviced the elevator.  He started to call them, but then remembered a memo posted in the lobby.  It had phone numbers for the company that does maintenance on the building.  Mike figured they might be able to respond quicker – before he went into shock.

He dialed their number and a woman answered, greeting him in Portuguese.  

“Por favor, falla ingles?”, he asked.  Please, do you speak English?

Just a little”, she replied.  This is an answer we’ve heard many times.  It means that the person has a grasp of English somewhere on the spectrum from absolute beginner to editor of the Oxford English dictionary.  Hoping she was being modest, Mike forged on.

“Obrigado. Chamo-me Mike Johnston.”  Thank you.  My name is Mike Johnston.  That’s about as far as his entry-level Portuguese would take him in this conversation.

“I live at <building address>.  I just dropped my car keys in the elevator and they fell through the gap into the elevator shaft.  Can you help me find someone to retrieve them?”

To her credit, the woman on the other end of the line did not snicker.  Or at least she had her microphone muted.

“I see”, she said.  “Do you have another set of keys?”

“No.  It’s a rental car.  And I have to leave here in the next hour.”  Mike could feel his blood pressure rising and had an increasing desire to collapse on the floor in a fetal position.

They talked for a few more minutes.  She had a reassuring manner, like we imagine the 911 (or 112 in Portugal) operators have when talking to someone on the ledge of a building or the railing of a bridge.   While they talked, one of her colleagues called the elevator company.  

Since it was 13:00 hours (1:00 pm – lunch time), she wasn’t certain if anyone would answer the phone.  But they did pick up and the owner of the company said he would call a technician to come to our building.  They would let us know when to expect help to arrive.  Then she hesitated for a moment before saying that there would be a charge for the service call, but she didn’t know how much it would be.  

Mike was ready to open his wallet or give them his ATM card pin code.  Just get us the keys!

Cooling our heels

After Mike hung up, we went back upstairs to the apartment to wait for a follow up message.  All we could think about was the worst case scenario where they couldn’t get to us until the next day or the day after.  

But within a few minutes Mike received a text message saying someone would be around in the next half hour and that the charge would be €50.

Luckily, that was exactly what he had in his wallet.  

While we waited, we tried to think clearly about what we needed to do next.  Mary thought about going to the ATM for more cash and then to the padaria for something for lunch.  Then realized that her wallet and phone were in her backpack…locked in the car.

So we sat.  And waited. Not calmly.

About twenty minutes later, our doorbell rang and Mike opened the door to find a young man holding the key fob.  ”I found your key.  Did they tell you there would be a charge?”

“Yes.  I have the money right here.”

“Ok.  Do you need a receipt?”

“No.”  Mike didn’t want a paper trail to remind him of this event.  

He handed over the money. The young man handed him the key fob.  They each said “Obrigado” and he left. 

We grabbed the remaining bags, hooked Sox up to her leash, and made a run for the door.  

The key fob was tucked safely in Mike’s pocket before he approached the elevator.

So how did it end?

The scenery between Lisbon and Nazaré was interesting – rolling hills with clusters of houses, lots of trees – and as we drove, we calmed down and began to look forward to the rest of the trip.  Our day was definitely getting better.

Quinta Amarela, the guest house where Mary had made a reservation, turned out to be a lovely, sprawling home on a big lot. 

A sign at the entrance to Quinta Amarela Guest House in Nazaré.
Image source: Quinta Amarela

It had four guest rooms and a shared kitchen and living room.  Fatíma, the owner, met us and showed us around.  Before she left, she said, “I’ll be back later to light a fire in the fireplace.”  

The common living area at Quinta Amarela Guest House in Nazaré.
Image source: Quinta Amarela

During our two night stay, we met other travelers from Germany, Belgium, Austria, and Cyprus.

This was what AirBnB’s used to be. 

Recommendation #1:  If you ever go to Nazaré, stay at Quinta Amarela.  

We got unpacked and drove into Nazaré to walk along the beach side promenade.  While we were there, we saw one of the prettiest sunsets we’d seen in a long time.

Mary and Sox walking toward the beach in Nazaré.
Sunset at the beach in Nazaré.

But…there was one last hiccup.  As we were getting cleaned up to go to dinner, Mike realized that in the rush to get out of the apartment, he had left his hanging clothes behind – two shirts and a better looking pair of pants to wear to Thanksgiving dinner.

Oh well…

A great ending

We finished the day with a great meal at Rosa dos Ventes. Our waiter told us that meant “Rose of the Winds” – a reference to a wind rose or compass rose, the symbol on a map that shows the main compass points.

Image source: Britannica Kids

A compass rose showing the four directions - North, South, East, and West.
The exterior of Rosa Dos Ventos - "Rose of the Winds" - in Nazaré, Portugal.

This restaurant had been recommended to us by a friend who insisted “You must go there. They have the freshest fish!”. He was right – it was a delightful experience.

It’s a tiny little place on a narrow street with no parking. It’s crowded inside – you might make new friends at the table right next to you. You can order off the menu, but their specialty is fresh fish for two, and you get to select your dinner from a platter they bring to your table.

A server showing Mary the selection of fish at Rosa dos Ventos in Nazaré.
Before… We picked the red snapper in the middle
Grilled red snapper, boiled potatoes, and salad at Rosa dos Ventos in Nazaré.
After… A delicious meal.

Recommendation #2:  If you’re ever in Nazaré, make a reservation
and have dinner at Rosa dos Ventos. 

The next day

On Thursday morning, we got up early and drove to the top of a cliff to see the surf.  From the top there was a nice view of the town and the Praia da Nazaré to the south.

Nazaré, Portugal, viewed from the north.

It was a windy morning, with intermittent rain, but despite the weather, there was a steady stream of people walking down the path to the Forte de São Miguel Arcanjo, a 16th century fort on a promontory that is the best place to see the Praia do Norte  – the north beach – and the waves.  

The waves that morning didn’t look like they were 11 meters high, but they were impressive.

A Slight Diversion

For an up-close look at what it’s like to surf the big waves, check out this video from 60 Minutes Australia.

A wonderful dinner

Later in the day, the Thanksgiving gathering was delightful.  We enjoyed meeting a new group of people, most of whom were from the US or Great Britain.  Our hosts, Daniel and Beverly, were originally from Louisiana.  They had planned a Southern-style dinner that included a delicious deep-fried turkey, macaroni and cheese, sweet potatoes, and what looked like a dozen pies!

Daniel checking on the deep-fried turkey.
Side dishes at Thanksgiving dinner.
Some of the desserts at Thanksgiving dinner.

As we gathered to start filling plates, Beverly welcomed the group to the table.

Our hostess, Beverly.

She said, “There’s the family you’re born into, and then there’s the family you gather along the way.  You’re all family here.”

And no one noticed that Mike was wearing yesterday’s pants.


We hope your holidays are filled with happy moments with your families and friends.  

Happy holidays / Boas festas!

Mary and Mike

The Cook and The Writer


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21 thoughts on “A Bad Day, But a Good Trip”

  1. Hey Mike,
    Short version. Around 2am Father Day and 4 hours before we were to drive to Gulf Shores for summer vacation. Cramping kept getting worse. I knew I wouldn’t make it to Alabama. Drove myself to the ER. Ginger and kids were sound asleep. Waited 2 hours to get in. Blood test, CT scan. All the good stuff to determine what’s going on. I was finally diagnosed with Diverticulitis. Pain meds and two antibiotics and we were finally on the road by 8am. It was a painful 11 hour drive but we made it:)
    BTW, the eul log, (spelling?) video was blocked by PBS in the states. Oh well, I’m sure it was good.
    You all have a great Holiday Season.
    Best,
    John

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  2. Oh my goodness, what a great story! I absolutely love reading about your adventures. Hope our paths cross in Portugal one of these days. Boas festas!

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    • Hi Heather,
      Thanks for joining the conversation and giving us some positive feedback. Coming from a published author, it means a lot. And yes – do come to Portugal. It’s great any time of the year.
      All the best,
      Mike

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  3. Great “travel” story Mike and Mary, happy you were able to enjoy a fun Thanksgiving accompanied by unique circumstances.

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    • Hi Bob,
      Thanks for the comment, and for sending the “Road to Antioch” story. I’ll publish it as a follow up to this post. Hope you and your family had a good Thanksgiving, too.
      Mike

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  4. Oh my gosh! So glad you’re sharing your stories because they are definitely worth sharing! It never occurred to me to call the elevator company! I would have called the rental location. So happy you got to explore a new place and meet such interesting people. Happy Holidays!

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    • Hi Bonnie,
      Thanks for your note and the holiday wishes. The rental car company probably had a second key, but they were at least an hour and a half away. They would have been my fallback, I guess. Glad I didn’t have to go there!
      All the best,
      Mike

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  5. Oh my goodness guys! What a crazy beginning to your road-trip. Cheers to the maintenance and elevator team at your apartment!!
    Hope to see you soon:-))

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    • Hi Darci,
      I’ll have to add the maintenance company to our Christmas card list. We have replayed those events several times since and always conclude that our outcome was better than 99% of the other possibilities. And yes, we’re overdue to catch up. I’ll be in touch.
      Take care,
      Mike

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  6. What a terrible start. I can only imagine. Glad it ended up well. What part of LA are your friends from? Houma by chance?

    I won’t go into too many details about the start to our last trip. Summer vacation starting on Father’s Day, with a drive to Gulf Shores, AL. I ended up driving myself to the emergency room at 2am. Was discharged at 7am and was still able to get on the road by 8am.

    Thanks for the Thanksgiving story.
    John

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    • Hi John,
      It’s funny – we didn’t talk about where in Louisiana they were from. That will be a first question next time we see them. Your story leaves a lot to the imagination. I’m glad you’re around to talk about it now.
      Happy holidays!
      Mike

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  7. oh my gosh, talk about “mind the gap”! I love your rule about only one of you being insane at a time; very wise words. It’s lovely that Beverly and Daniel have made a new Thanksgiving tradition made up of “gathered” family.

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    • Hi Heather,
      We have met so many friendly and interesting people since we’ve been here. (Not that there weren’t the same back in the States!) But I think the shared experience of relocating to a foreign country gives people a different way to bond. We all want to know each other’s stories. I hope you’re finding that in Spain.
      Thanks for commenting,
      Mike

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  8. You have done your readers a great service by alerting them that dropping their keys through that particular crack is a possibility. I remember someone sharing a similar story years ago, and I am now always careful when getting on and off trains and metros and elevators. I am thrilled for you that the company was able to retrieve your keys so quickly. One of the great things when you are writing against deadline is that everything is copy. Thank you so much for sharing.

    Take good care,
    Nan

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    • Hi Nan,
      Thanks for your comment. I’ve been looking carefully at the gaps between the train cars and the platforms recently. And keeping a tight grip on all my belongings!
      All the best,
      Mike

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  9. So glad your trip turned out well! I’ve often wondered if anyone ever dropped something important through that gap in the elevator opening, LOL. And thanks for the recommendation of Quinta Amarela, it looks delightful. Probably our worst travel experience was trying to leave India in August 2020 in the heights of Covid lockdowns. The airport in Chennai where we had been living for three years was closed so we had to fly out of Bangalore. Cool, right? But the state border between Chennai (Tamil Nadu) and Bangalore (Karnataka) was also closed and one could only cross it with appropriate reasons and paperwork. The transit company our employer provided for us secured the permits for us but when we stood in line at the border checkpoint and finally made it to the surly clerk, he took one look, tossed our papers down, and said “WRONG permits, you must quarantine for 14 days!” Imagine our hearts dropping down an elevator shaft! Anyway, a supervisor helped us and in about 20 minutes we had new permits and were on our way. The young supervisor smiled and told us how he always liked to help “old folks.”

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    • Hi David,
      Thanks for sharing your travel story. It sounds like you encountered a classic “good cop / bad cop” duo at the border. Traveling anywhere during Covid was challenging enough, but then to have to deal that! I like to think, though, that for every self-important tingod in the world, there are at least three or four good-hearted, helpful souls like the young supervisor.
      Have a great day!
      Mike

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  10. Getting the utilities turned in with Elizabeth’s help, now this. Mary you know our bladders become less “supportive” as we age. You really need to provide a laugh warning at the beginning of these posts!

    Thanks for the link!

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    • You are too funny Nancy. It is funny now but when it was happening you can only imagine. I’m sure if Elizabeth had been by Mike’s side we would only have had to pay half the key retrieval fee. Everyone needs a friend like Elizabeth. Happy holidays to you and Denise.

      Reply

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